some people do not like this when they hear it for the first time, but it is a truth of the human condition and every thinker and philosopher through history has agreed with that point, every self-help / success Guru today will tell you the same, it is an eternal human truth. This world we live in is ruled by laws e.g. the law of gravity, laws of light, laws of sound and so on. There are also laws of metaphysics; the only one that you really need to know is the Law of Attraction.

Law of Attraction
The Law of Attraction states, your thoughts and all images in your mind, and all the feelings connected to your thoughts will later manifest as your reality.

In other words: everything in your life and world is the result of your thinking, by your thinking you have attracted it.
• People who keep thinking about debt will keep on getting more debt.
• People who keep thinking about how bad their life is will find it will not improve.
• People who keep thinking about anger and argument will keep on finding anger and argument.
• People who keep thinking about success will reach it.

The list could go on forever. So everything in our lives is a result of our own thinking. So you must only think about the life and things that you really want.